Be honest! How many times a day do you hear or say the words “I’m busy”?
We are all guilty of it, and it has been common parlance for so long that we just don’t question it anymore.
Lately, I’ve been working on changing my own internal narrative, for two reasons:
- “I’m busy” does not offer any insights (to me or others) into my degree of busy-ness, and;
- “I’m busy” just somehow has a negative connotation to it, and there are some levels of busy-ness that we should celebrate, and others that we absolutely need to eradicate.
What level of busy are you?
Instead of thinking the thought – “Oh I’m busy” I’ve been consciously reframing it to “I’m being deliciously well utilised!”
I’m now starting to express this verbally when people ask me how my business is going. With a smile on my face, I respond “I’m being deliciously well utilised.” Because I am, and I’m obviously ecstatic about having an opportunity to spread my love far and wide. We also know, psychologically, that feeling well utilised at work and having a valuable purpose is good for us.
But on the flip side, I’m also very well aware that as a business owner I can choose when I work and how I work and that I get to set my own boundaries between deliciously well utilised and being distastefully overloaded.
So how does this play out in the workplace?
What should happen is that people feel safe in their environments to have an open and trustful conversation with their leader about their current capacity vs current demands, and rationalise or delegate activities accordingly.
I mean there are 40 hours in the working week (give or take depending on your EBA and your own choices and boundaries). Therefore, it stands to reason you can only reasonably be expected to manage 40 hours of tasks and relationships and leadership duties. Maybe you’re even taking your lunch breaks. This is being deliciously well utilised. Busy yes. But a good busy. Active. Actualised.
Instead, what is happening is that people are being given increasing amounts of work to do in those 40 hours. Unreasonable amounts that started as a little and – like the kilo creep – is now a lot.
And because we have good people, they’ll smile and keep trying to juggle the load.
They’ll sacrifice their breaks, work longer hours and be less mentally available when they’re home with their families. But all the while – internally they’re stressed and fighting off the inner voice that’s telling them it’s because they aren’t good enough, or organised enough, or resilient enough or experienced enough, that they can’t manage or get on top of things.
Never once considering it may be the environment that’s distastefully overloading them. These good people, over time, will either move on or break.
Think of it like the capacity of a dam. A dam can only hold so much water. We want the dam to be full. That means it is serving its purpose, and we truly value that precious water it gives us. So, we tend it and nurture it and look after it.
But a dam that is being distastefully overloaded – is being bombarded by constant heavy rain. Soon the water starts trickling over the edge, showing warning signs it’s not managing the load. If there is no intervention the dam walls will burst, flood the landscape and cause widespread chaos. All that valuable water will be lost, and it will take years to rebuild and replenish.
It’s a Leaders Role to Open the Flood Gates
Much like our dam, in the workplace leaders need to keep an eye on work levels and adjust as necessary to avoid overloading. There is significant risk in not doing so. All dams and people have a finite capacity. To avoid chaos, you will have to open the flood gates or find a way to ease the deluge.
The Risks of Ignoring Seepage
Leaders are also battling the deluge and often in the same boat (an accidental but superb pun) trying to manage upwards and rationalise tasks.
It’s a challenging status quo at present as there continues to be an expectation of doing more with less. Of continuing to ignore the trickle over the dam wall.
There is a huge risk in this.
If we make work overload a new cultural norm, we set an unhealthy precedent that will prevent us from having a sustainable, happy and productive workforce and culture.
We must challenge our internal dialogue and other’s expectations that being distastefully overloaded is just ‘part of the job’ or just ‘the way it is around here’.
We must challenge the stories we tell ourselves about leaders earning their stripes, or why they get “paid the big bucks” or why we must work longer than others.
With the increasing incidents of mental illness in society, increasing costs of lost productivity in the workplace due to mental ill-health, and skyrocketing psychological harm claims, the evidence is quite compelling that this mindset is no longer serving anyone well.
What steps will you take to stem the flow?